A community is made up of the people around you. A tribe is made up of the people you intentionally invite into your life.

While we all live, work, worship, and learn alongside others, a tribe is different. A tribe is a circle of trusted people who encourage you, challenge you, celebrate your victories, and walk with you through life's biggest moments. They remind you who you are when the world tries to tell you otherwise.

One of the greatest gifts you can give yourself—and your girl—is a strong tribe. These are the women, mentors, family members, and friends who will speak life into you, model healthy relationships, and help guide you through every season.

Building a tribe doesn't happen overnight, but it does happen intentionally. Here are a few ways to begin cultivating a community that will support your family for years to come.

Tips On Building Your Tribe

Building Your Tribe

Here are a few important things to consider when building your tribe. Remember these are just suggestions, you can use these ideas to guide you through the process. Consider asking each one to be apart of your tribe in a special and unique way. Maybe make them a special gift or write them a heartfelt note. Get creative!

WHO

Who is the person (or people) that your mom or guardian trust the most? And why? What do they have in common? What are the things you have in common or like about this person(s)? How long have you or your mom known them. Do you both believe they would be a good influence on you?

WHERE

Where does this person live and how do you or will you communicate with them? If you needed them how will you all get to them? Or them to you? Are the an emergency contact or do they live too far away?

WHEN

Do you see them regularly? Can you plan to spend some quality time together in the near future? Where will you go and what will you do? Will you all plan this special bonding time together? Can you talk about important things?

WHY

Why is this person(s) someone you or your mom would want to be an influence in your life? What makes them a good fit for the space that you and your guardian/girl have created? Why are you special to them?